Who’s using birth control? Oh, right, almost every single woman in America.
The only difference is that the religious women are shamed for using birth control — same for sex. Most people have sex, the only difference is that religious people feel shamed when having sex.
We need to change how we view sex as a society. Not as something that is shameful and dirty, but something that is beautiful and natural (as long as it’s consensual and safe, of course!).