I wish people acknowledged the fact that folks with vaginas can and do rape women (cis and trans) and when we’re victimized by anyone but someone with a dick, we’re completely erased.
Which is why it boggles me how many feminists equate penis with rape tool and think folks with vaginas can’t rape.
It’s why I am afraid to talk about being raped, because the person who raped me didn’t have a penis.
I hope one day we can just STOP invalidating/ignoring the experiences of ALL survivors. The narratives that are put out there about people who have been abused, assaulted, etc. are just SO LIMITED. Remember, your experience still is REAL and MATTERS, even if many are too narrow-minded to realize that RAPE IS RAPE. period. Regardless of the genitals of the parties involved.